Dependency cases move fast, and the smallest missteps can have serious consequences. We’ve worked with countless parents and seen firsthand what helps—and what hurts—their cases.
Here are the top mistakes parents make and how to avoid them:
Mistake 1: Failing to Take the Case Seriously
Many parents assume that if they love their child and know they’re a good parent, the case will resolve quickly. Unfortunately, good intentions are not enough in dependency court.
Avoid It: Show urgency. Attend all hearings. Be prompt. Be respectful. Take every requirement seriously.
Mistake 2: Ignoring Court Orders or Case Plans
If the judge or DCS tells you to enroll in a class or complete a service and you ignore it, you risk losing your rights permanently.
Avoid It: Track every requirement. Ask for a case plan in writing. Document your progress. Communicate proactively with your caseworker and attorney.
Mistake 3: Poor Communication With DCS or the Court
Yelling at your caseworker, skipping meetings, or making accusations without documentation can make you look unstable or uncooperative.
Avoid It: Keep communications polite, clear, and in writing when possible. Let your attorney speak on your behalf if emotions are running high.
Mistake 4: Failing to Prioritize Sobriety, Safety, and Stability
Dependency court values evidence of change. Even small slip-ups (missed tests, inconsistent housing, new criminal charges) can stall reunification.
Avoid It: Seek support, avoid risky situations, and focus 100% on stabilizing your life—starting with housing, income, and mental health.
With the right strategy and support, parents can avoid these common pitfalls and rebuild a safe, secure relationship with their children.
